Generations of Giving: A Grandfather and Granddaughter Team Up for Baycrest | Why We Give

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Generations of Giving: A Grandfather and Granddaughter Team Up for Baycrest

A Passover challenge, a school project, and a ten-year-old who knew exactly which charity deserved her grandfather's support.

An older hand and a child's hand holding on to each other, photographed outdoors in warm light
Generations of giving: what one family passed from grandparent to grandchild.

About this series

Welcome to Why We Give, a new series from the Baycrest Foundation. In each instalment we sit down with the people behind the gifts: donors, families, volunteers and friends. They tell us, in their own words, what moved them to give. Their reasons are as varied as they are: a memory, a diagnosis, a debt of gratitude, a promise to a loved one. Together their stories reveal the many reasons people choose generosity, and the lasting difference it makes.

We begin with a story that started at a Passover table.

This past Passover, Alan Shiner issued a challenge to his four young granddaughters: research a charity, present the case for it, and convince him to donate. His ten-year-old granddaughter, Shayna, knew immediately where her heart lay. Baycrest.

The choice was a personal one. Alan's aunt had been cared for at Baycrest, and the compassion she received made a lasting impression on the family. Shayna's grandmother, Alan's wife Faye, had volunteered here as well. Baycrest was already part of the family's story. Shayna simply picked up the thread.

A Passover seder table photographed from above, with a seder plate, matzah, candles and hands reaching for glasses of wine
The challenge began where so many family conversations do: around the Passover table.

How One School Project Sparked a Gift

Shayna had been learning about charity and fundraising at school through Project Give Back, an educational initiative at Bialik Elementary School that engages students in charitable causes. Students choose a cause, present it to their classmates, and write a letter to the organization reflecting on what they have learned.

In her letter to Baycrest, Shayna wrote a simple, powerful sentence.

"I want people to live with happiness despite their illness." Shayna, age 10

Armed with her Project Give Back slideshow and her research, Shayna made her pitch. It won her grandfather over completely, and Alan made a gift to the Baycrest Foundation.

Seeing the Impact Firsthand

For Alan, philanthropy has never been about writing a cheque. It is about staying connected to the community a gift is meant to serve. So he and Faye brought Shayna to the Baycrest campus to see it for herself.

The sunlit atrium at Baycrest, with white steel beams fanning out beneath a glass roof
The Baycrest campus in Toronto, where Shayna read her letter aloud to resident elders.

The warmth of the place made an immediate impression.

"The people there are so nice and warm. The second I walked into Baycrest, I was greeted with smiles. It felt like a true community." Shayna

During the visit, Shayna was invited to speak as a special guest at three Shabbat programs across campus, reading her letter aloud to resident elders and answering their questions. For Alan, watching his ten-year-old granddaughter address those rooms with clarity, warmth and respect for her audience was the undeniable highlight of the day.

About Project Give Back

Project Give Back is an educational initiative at Bialik Elementary School that engages students in charitable causes. Each student selects a charity, researches it, delivers a presentation to classmates, and writes a letter to the organization reflecting on the experience.

Raising the Next Generation of Givers

Shayna is not finished. Inspired by what she saw, she plans to come back and volunteer at Baycrest as soon as she is old enough.

For Alan, that outcome meant everything.

"The whole objective is to get young people to think about others and learn what a community does to support itself. The key is understanding that the world extends far beyond the one you live in day to day." Alan Shiner

Every gift begins with a reason

Why We Give shares those reasons, and the people behind them. If you have a story you would like to tell, we would love to hear it.

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About the series: Why We Give is a storytelling series from the Baycrest Foundation, featuring the donors, families, volunteers and friends whose generosity supports the Baycrest community.

About Baycrest: Located in Toronto, Baycrest is a global leader in aging and brain health. Its campus brings together world-class research, clinical care, senior living communities, and wellness programs within a single organization.

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